Do you ever get tired of yourself? I faced this the other day as I sat down to re-write my bio. “About me” needed to get “about the biggest facelift ever.” Bios I guess are kind of like this…on and on it went, accomplishment after accomplishment leading up to my launch of Grace Delivers in April of 2009. Blah blah blah. Ha ha ha. No wonder I moved to the middle of the jungle at the age of 30.
On the brink of three years on Maui, it’s time to regroup. Look to the past, honor it, hold it, make love to it, and maybe even let it go a bit. That starts with…all…of…the…things…I have done…in my career…………..and then ends up with where I am going. Where to start?
Well, how about with MY dream. What is my dream? I spend a lot of time with people talking about their dreams, but when was the last time that I really sat down and defined mine. I must practice what I preach. So, I just wrote it. And this is how it went.
Kristin Hettermann: Inspired, Grace Delivers
I love the question, “tell me about yourself?” because it is when I feel that I really get to shine (normally I revel in making my clients shine). But the story of who I am, and what I do, really comes from looking at the past and present at the “we”; after all, I am only a reflection of those that surround me. A beautiful collage of experiences, employers, adventures, successes and challenges that make up Grace Delivers, launched in 2009 from Maui, Hawai’i. So, what have “we” done? We always start with the dream.
Our business savvy and graceful presentation makes us as appealing in the boardroom as stretched across a hammock over the sparkling Pacific. From Wall Street to right off the runway, our clients span industries and service markets. Entities worked with include top financial institutions, global public relations companies, recognized chefs and restaurants, aspiring fashion designers, game-changing technology ventures, institutions of higher academics, talented artists, iconic athletes, real estate investment and development entities, luxury resorts, smart products, wellness offerings, non-profit organizations heralding change and making a difference, and so much more. Why limit yourself, when the world is so juicy?
Our commitment to giving back forms the foundation of everything that we do- for our clients and our community. We are about creative and innovative ideas that are making communities stronger, happier and healthier…and the brilliant people behind them. Our efforts have contributed to raising and granting over three million dollars to benefit non-profit organizations. This includes orchestrating major fundraising galas around the world to creating donor engagement and retention strategies that keep non-profit organizations moving forward in demanding times. We are proud that our mana’o (ideas and energy) have supported countless non-profits in their mission of greater good.
The fusion and translation of right and left-brain activity is where Grace Delivers resides, always has. I left Ivy League University of Pennsylvania as a college basketball player studying business at The Wharton Undergraduate School to becoming a proud Tri-Delta sorority girl at the University of Virginia majoring in French and Foreign Affairs. I wanted to travel the world, make things happen and be a social philanthropist. My years at Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology prepared me for innovation, but not for being a global citizen or fashionista. It was time for more, and off I went my junior year in college to study with Vanderbilt University in Aix-en-Provence, France. (I wish I still dreamed in French. Maybe someday again!) Eight years as a party planning socialite in the etiquette-appropriate southern Holy City of Charleston, SC was balanced by fun with the financial and real estate investment markets through my work with Merrill Lynch and the launch of my real estate investment LLC, KLH Properties. I was finished off quite well, and it was time to begin.
When not applying business strategy to just about everything that needs it, I have a camera in my hand, am exploring my inner mermaid in the vast oceans of the world, coordinating my social schedule (which often involves a dance floor, I insist) or constructing spirit sculptures. Off I go again, don’t be surprised. Our mission is global and it is of the highest deliverance.
We always end with the dream. It is our dream to do international business, travel the world and connect people to potential. Using our gifts to help others, our vision has been one of collaboration and collective manifestation. From visiting rural villages in Africa to help envision social entrepreneurship projects; to journeying far into the remote islands of the Indian Ocean to help a resort achieve a fundraising event of the highest global reach; to connecting together a technology team operating in London, Maui, Chicago, Australia and Spain to create an investment report profiling a technology that is answering the world’s cry over global warming; to blogging from a holistic health spa in Northern Thailand with an internationally renowned Tao leader; if there is a global “adventure in business” calling, we’re there.
Oh, and did I tell you I came to Maui to live in the middle of the jungle with Dennis, a highly simply spiritual being that I met when I ran out of gas on the Road to Hana while on vacation? That’s a story I prefer to tell in person.
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Ok, so I’m a converted eternal hopeful optimist. Life just seemed to get a lot better when I started tuning into the positive things around me and turning inspiration into action. I believe that the how, what and why you receive information is of utmost importance to how you disintegrate and integrate the messages and then convert them into action.
At 23, I stopped watching TV. I realized that watching the standard mass marketed news and TV shows had a profound effect on my anxiety and fear level, so I turned the TV off. Did I desire to be clueless? Not at all. I wanted to tune in, but tune in to things that elevated my state of well-being and consciousness. I realized that I was a much calmer, more balanced and positive person when I was paying attention to the things the made me happy and feel safe, rather than the contrary. Unfortunately, the large amount of information being divulged by the media and much of popular culture does not inspire that. I spent a few years completely cut off from media, for better or for worse. A little bubble I was in, but as they say what you don’t know can’t hurt you. Or can it?
I wanted to make up with media. Really, what type of PR and communications consultant does not watch TV or read the newspaper? Gasp. I would neeeevvvvver admit it. Then one day a light came on. I picked up an Ode Magazine waiting in line at a health food store in Charleston, SC…for intelligent optimists the cover said. I liked the sound of that.
“Ode is a print and online publication about positive news, about the people and ideas that are changing our world for the better. In print and online, Ode’s aim is to bring a new reality into view, to explore opportunities for positive change in our daily lives and our daily minds. Ode was founded in the spring of 1995 with a vision to create an alternative to mainstream publications, a magazine that was open to new inspirations and new visions from around the world.”
From that day forward, for the past ten years, Ode Magazine has been a bit of a modern media bible for me. If the information age is a complicated highway system, positive media might be the most powerful navigator. So, when I recently saw my favorite magazine was creating a daily wire service of worthy news bites, I was ecstatic. Now this was something I could sink my teeth into.
“OdeWire presents news to inspire intelligent optimists. Our unique wire is constantly refreshed by an automated system that combines advanced semantic technology with the guidance of our editorial staff. Around the clock and around the world, OdeWire is always looking at the most authoritative news sources for stories that focus on solutions rather than problems, and on positive changes rather than negative ones. Unlike other news sources that are over-weighted with negativity, OdeWire contributes to a more balanced media diet.”
“OdeWire is a collaboration between Ode Magazine, the global magazine for intelligent optimists, and Federated Media Publishing, which powers the best of the independent Web, using technology that originated at TextDigger, a Silicon Valley firm developing ground-breaking semantic search technology.”
In this article in the Scientific American, Daniel Stone breaks down how it works. “The slant engine dives deeper into algorithmic programming. It starts by classifying a story’s topic as either a world problem (disease and poverty, for example) or a social good (health care and education). Then it looks for revealing phrases. “Efforts against” in a story, referring to a world problem, would signal something good. “Setbacks to” a social good, likely bad. Thousands of questions later every story is eventually assigned a score between 0 and 1—above 0.95 fast-tracks the story to Ode’s Web interface, called OdeWire. The system is trained to only collect themes that are “meaningfully optimistic,” meaning it throws away flash-in-the-pan stories about things like sports or celebrities.”
The goal of Odewire, as stated by editor of Ode Magazine Jurriaan Kamp, is not to ignore the realities, “drowning out the gloom to focus on rainbows and unicorns.” Kamp states that the focus is also on looking at things from a different angle, turning otherwise downers into inspirational stories that encourage positive action.
As Rebecca Solnit discusses on the nourishment of hope, “Think of hope as something that requires care and feeding. You feed it by finding news sources that give you information about alternative movements and new possibilities. The real territory for hope is the possibilities we possess for acting, changing, mattering.”
Through communication, we can change the world. Ten years later, Ode’s vision has served as a beacon of light for me as I have progressed through my career and into my own vision of providing conscious communication strategies that celebrate passion and optimism in business, firmly rooted in the concept of community and the power of giving back. I believe that in my role as a gifted communicator, connector and agent of change, it is part of my duty to serve as a conduit of inspiring and important information that makes a difference. Change must be facilitated on a local to global scale, and technology now provides us plenty of connectivity to share stories. In the online world of social media, when I share something, I share because I hope it will inspire, uplift and engage. In the world of business, I bring balanced and positive energy into situations and help bring clarity through right intent and action. Yes, there are struggles in the world. But what part can you play in addressing them? I believe positive change comes from each individual action and the butterfly effect that those actions lead to.
I love what His Holiness the Dalai Lama has to say on this topic. “History reflects our understanding. The history of humanity is, in some respects, the history of man’s understanding. Historical events,
wars, progress, tragedies, and so on, all of these reflect the negative and positive thoughts of mankind. All the great personalities of history, the liberators, the great thinkers, all such people reflect positive thinking; whereas tragic events, tyranny, and terrible wars have resulted from negative thinking. Therefore the only thing that is really worthwhile is to increase the power and influence of positive thinking, and to reduce the occurrence of negative thinking. If you let anger and hatred run loose, you are lost. And no sensible being wants to be lost.”
“And no sensible being wants to be lost,” including me! I have much gratitude for the beauty that I discovered within finding my way, and for all of the inspiration that has supported me personally and professionally though the years. Here’s to following the path of intelligent optimism…kudos to Ode for leading the way.
Revolutionize news with OdeWire from Ode on Vimeo.
“Trust me, it’s paradise. This is where the hungry come to feed. For mine is a generation that circles the globe and searches for something we haven’t tried before. So never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never fail to be polite and never outstay the welcome. Just keep your mind open and suck in the experience.”
One of my favorite movie lines of all time, in The Beach, Richard (Leonardo DiCaprio) pretty much sums up what it is to be a global citizen. I feel that I have been getting intimate with my global citizen this month, and even as I return home to Maui, Hawai’i, I continue in the journey. This month, I traveled through the Philippines, Singapore, Maldives, Northern and Southern Thailand, and Malaysia. Granted, some of these stops were ”travel-through,” but never underestimate the power of a walk-around the local airport. You can learn a lot. I experienced at least five paths of spirituality: Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, Taoism and swimming with the turtles (this is a Maui thing, you all know if you’ve done it).
To be a global citizen really means your home is where you lay your head. Every time I visit a new spot, departure is traumatic and normally involves tears, unless I know I am coming back soon. How is it that I feel so connected, everywhere?
Well, this month brings one explanation- when I travel, it is my intention and my goal to balance the senses; the movement inspires balance for me, in some bizarre and perhaps seemingly backwards sort of way. Traveling into the unknown- isn’t that chaos? Or maybe it is exactly that which gets us going in the right direction.
To me, balance involves receiving as much information as I can, and then creating a beautiful collage for my magic carpet ride. There are no answers, only the experience. So, how do you redefine your experience? This advertisement that I came across in one of the airline mags sums it up pretty well…
“No one is in control of your happiness. The question in life is not how much time do we have but what do we do with it. Life is short, don’t hesitate. Life starts at the end of your comfort zone; live outside the box. Stop over analyzing, life is simple. This is your life do what you love and do it often. Life is about the people you meet and the things you create with them so go out and start creating. Life is like a story, don’t live in others. Real happiness is not complicated at all.”
It was appropriate that one of my final legs of my journey took me to Six Senses Yao Noi. The pyramid of six spheres used to identify the Six Senses “re-experience” represents the philosophy that is fundamental to the human experience, and to the experience that I always aspire to have as a human being.
The foundation spheres represent the three primary senses of sight, sound and touch. The second level balances upon this foundation by satisfying the more acute senses of taste and smell. The apex sphere symbolizes a sense of elation discovered only by balancing the first five – the unique experience of all senses elevated beyond expectations. This Sixth Sense, this is what leads you forward.
So in the name of all journeys had and to have, I pay honor to the inspiration of Six Senses and lands far away to bring balance to my senses. Thank you for a set of once in a lifetime experiences. I feel like a new woman.
See pictures of Six Senses Yao Noi here.
Got your attention, eh? My first day at Tao Garden Holistic Health Spa in Northern Thailand seemed to be rather fabulously typical to an internationally renowned health spa with a Master Taoist spiritual leader, until a beautiful German woman told me to smile to my organs. Now that’s a new approach!
But as new as it might seem, that concept as well as many others that form the base of the Tao philosophy at the foundation of Tao Garden are rooted in over two thousand years of tradition and practice.
Your inner smile is sure to be found and radiated from within at Tao Garden in Chiang Mai, one of the world’s top holistic health retreats. Master Mantak Chia welcomes you to his magic land, where his teachings and the practices of Tao are celebrated by a daily lifestyle of nourishment, care and compassion. (See pictures of Tao Garden here)
So, as I left Tao Garden today, the top ten gems that I was gifted by my time in this beautiful place (not counting all of my new international friends!) are below.
1) SMILE. To yourself, others and most importantly, to your organs. Ok, so the first two seem easy, enough. But think about it, how often do you smile, to yourself? You often smile at someone, in reflection to something, but how often do you really look within and give yourself a loving smile? Try it now. You’ll feel a weight lift from your chest. Now, smile to your organs? Sounds pretty crazy, but through a simple daily exercise of drawing awareness, breath and love into the very things that provide you life and wellness, you would be amazed at how your body thanks you. Have health issues? Anxiety? Depression? Lost sense of self? In the Tao health philosophy, the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual all work, or don’t work, due to connectivity or lack thereof. Everything needs oxygen to live, and love to prosper.
2) BALANCE THE YIN AND THE YANG. One of the foundational premises of the Tao philosophy, the yin and the yang is a representation of our most fundamental core compositional components: the masculine and the feminine. As Master Chiang says, “Always balance the positive with the negative. Electricity no work without negative and positive. Neither body. Push down, the earth pushes back.”
Feeling emotional? Sick? The Six Healing Sounds practice changes the negative into positive energy to improve health and spiritual energy. The quickest and most profound results come from a daily practice of about twenty minutes. “You do it, you get it; you don’t do it, you don’t get it!”
3) THE CIRCLE OF LIFE. Tight chest? Headaches? Caught up in your head? Running on the hamster wheel? Try this. Release your head and heart energy down into Mother Earth and envision pure light energy coming from the heavens to replace it. This practice results in energy being recycling and purified, to be shared again with others in the spirit of community evolution. The flow of energy (chi) is one of Taoism’s primary points of wellness. When chi is blocked, you have increased sickness and disease. Communities are weak. This flow of energy talk might be a bit beyond your metaphysical comfort zone, but just think about it like this…you will never have a smooth and efficient ride on the highway if you keep getting stopped by accidents. Clear the accidents, happy journeys! The highways connect us all.
4) RESPECT AND HONOR. Everywhere you go in Thailand, you will see pictures of people for reverence- family, politicians, the heads of a Buddhist monasteries. Remembrances are a beautiful thing, we must know where we came from to know where we are going. The standard greeting in Thailand is a head bow with hands in prayer, showing respect for all. The connection starts, and ends, with respect.
5) BUILD MONUMENTS. Temples, temples everywhere. Never underestimate the power of reminders to keep you conscious and aware of the things you want to continue to respect and honor in your life. It does not have to be a form of worship, but could also be a subtle structure that grabs your subconscious attention in the name of a higher good and/or gives you a destination at which to engage in a wellness practice. We must never lose site of our principles. But, it takes practice. I’ll take a reminder any day!
6) CLEAN YOUR CELLS. The open secret to physical health? Clean cells (all 6.5 trillion of them) and clean blood. The qualities Master Chia envisioned for Tao Garden focus on this state of clean: good air, good water, good food, good chi, good heart, good intention. What is this chi anyway? It is life force. It needs to be sustained through smart choices and purposeful actions.
7) BE PLAYFUL. Don’t lose your connection with that inner child and DEFINITELY don’t take yourself too seriously. Thai people are the sweetest people I know. They giggle and laugh, a lot. They make jokes and their lighthearted approach to life cannot help but brighten your day. Seriously, what pill are they on? The reality of it is, it’s a cultural practice, a foundational pillar of happiness, translated into a way of being that circumvents the premise that you have to grab for medication to be happy. I’ll toast to that!
DON’T BE SCARED TO TRY THE UNKNOWN. I came to Tao Garden in search of answers. For over a year and a half, I have been battling health issues with a list of symptoms too long to write. Extreme fatigue, vertigo, naseousness, inflammation, rashes, spots in my eyesight, extreme intestinal issues, and on and on and on. With the major meltdown after I retuned from a trip to Africa In February of 2010, easy call was parasites. Yet, I tried everything seemingly available to me eastern and western medicine style, and still could not quite fully recover. My journey to Tao Garden was to experience their large diversity of medical treatments. And that I did. I sat with a machine that electronically zapped the bacteria and parasites in my body; I had my colon thoroughly cleansed; I had extensive specialty abdominal massages; my blood was taken from my body, cleaned with UV light and infused with ozone; I sat in boiling infrared saunas for sessions upon sessions; I drank olive oil and did a liver flush that had me crying to God at 5 am…anyway, you get the picture. I am happy to report that I feel strong, clear and in touch…the most promising state I have been in for a while. Don’t doubt what you haven’t tried.
9) JUST SAY NO TO ELEPHANT RIDES. When I came to Thailand, you better bet one of the things at the top of my list was to ride an elephant. One of those childhood dreams, that gets passed into your adult psyche. Without being given a reason to question, it remains a thing that tops your international wish list. I signed myself right up for a trip to the elephant kingdom, a tourist trap that imprisons elephants and walks them up and down rivers all day with overly enthusiastic tourists just like me on their backs. Thankfully, I ran into Nicolas that night, a French student of Master Chia’s who enlightened me to the Tao philosophy surrounding animals. And all of the sudden, the light shone. Here I am, being all zen and conscious, and yet not questioning my selfish desire to engage in supporting the abuse of one of my fellow earthly creatures. It’s not revolution (against the accepted practices), it’s evolution. Let’s think about our actions, every one of them, with a discerning eye to what is right and what is wrong.
10) AUTHENTICITY. There are many paths, but they lead to one. As global citizens, we are entitled to life, liberty and the pursuit of happy space (thank you Kevin). They teach you at Tao Garden to master yourself. Become your own teacher and healer, and in doing so, reclaim your health, wealth, longevity and spirit. Be authentic…listen closely to what makes your soul sing, and let it guide you. Then learn the notes, master the song and start composing. The concerto just gets more and more beautiful along the way.
I know I will be back to Tao Garden, and when I do, Taeng at the Yellow House down the road will still be there, welcoming visitors and serving up all your favorite coffee shop items and the cutest keepsakes that you can imagine. Until then, I bow to all my new friends and the staff at Tao Garden who lined my wellness path.
Learn about Master Mantak Chia.
Learn about Tao Garden.